Couples often ask me if their relationship will last over time. Beneath the surface lie unspoken questions: Are we compatible? Did I choose the right person? If we have such quarrels, are we meant for each other? Many couples silently ask themselves such questions as they face the challenges of their partnership.
Based on long-term studies of more than 3,000 couples, the Gottman Institute has developed a methodology that can be used to assess the relationship. Through the check-up, the strengths of the partnership can be outlined, as well as specific areas for improvement.